I will add the resources below for parents, which may be in the form of videos or PDFs or my app “How are you feeling?” Which can help with talking about feelings with your child.
The Animal Ladder – Understanding Your Child’s Behaviour
When children act out, withdraw, or seem restless, it can feel like bad behaviour.
But often, it’s their way of showing they don’t feel safe.
The Animal Ladder is a simple way to understand these shifts, using three characters:
🐶 the Happy Puppy (calm and connected)
🐱 the Scratchy Cat (on edge or cross)
🐢 the Snapping Turtle (withdrawn or shut down)
I’ve made a short video for parents that explains how the ladder works, with practical ideas for supporting your child at home.
✨ You can also download two free PDFs
If you would like more support, find out more about counselling for parents and children, or get in touch to ask any questions.