Relationships can be one of the most rewarding parts of life, and one of the most demanding. Sometimes the two people in a relationship are doing their best and still finding themselves stuck, distant, or repeatedly arriving at the same difficult place.

Online couples counselling offers a space where both of you can speak and be heard, with someone who isn’t on either side.

I work relationally, which means I’m interested in the patterns that develop between people, what triggers them, what sustains them, and what might be possible if they shifted. I don’t take sides or assign blame. I’m curious about both of you, and about what’s happening in the space between you.

How it works

Sessions are 90 minutes, held online via a secure video platform, and available to couples across the UK. Evening appointments are available.

My fee for online couples counselling is £120 per session.

Getting started

I offer a free introductory phonecall to both of you together or an individual, so you can get a sense of whether working with me feels right. There’s no obligation.

The Pause and Listen tool

Most arguments don’t need a winner. They need a pause. This tool will guide you through a simple, structured exchange — so you can hear each other rather than talk past each other. You’ll need about 20 minutes and a willingness to try.